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12 Signs He's Cheating on You

Have you ever cheated on your spouse?

  • No way! I can't believe you even asked.

    Votes: 40 75.5%
  • Once. Never again.

    Votes: 4 7.5%
  • Yeah, I'm not proud of it, but I did.

    Votes: 7 13.2%
  • Yes, I'm a serial cheater.

    Votes: 2 3.8%

  • Total voters
    53
You have a point since you all have kids, we dont, at least not that are under aged. She is probably more the one to get revenge if she wanted to, but with us it would be so simple. Neither of us have ever thought the other was cheating, or had the inclination to. She knows I have some great female friends and if she was as outgoing as I am, she would have male friends I am sure. WE dont mind, since we have the best of all gifts between husband and wife..........trust! That is the key, if that is broken, while love and desire and all the other things may still exist, trust is the one thing that holds it all together. Having no room for anyone else in the love arena makes this easy, she has it all from me and for me. That is the reason she is my one and only, and also the reason I have such a great life.
She's a bigger person than I am! I don't like Redneck to have female friends without me. (go ahead Rbackk :glare: ) Unless she's meaner and uglier than me :brows:
 
She's a bigger person than I am! I don't like Redneck to have female friends without me. (go ahead Rbackk :glare: ) Unless she's meaner and uglier than me :brows:


Holly knows about every single one of my female friends. Many have been here for things, she has "talked" to them on the IM, and when I have a female friend, it is simply that. No difference than my male friends, friends, that is it. I know that I have a very very special lady for my wife, and I never let her go thinking less..........


I am quite sure that you have nothing to worry about either, he knows you rock, and he knows if he messes up it is all over.................LOL
 
:bonk: I know all about the first answer, and glad that the percent is high there, now what about the others? Any comments or were you just being a smart a$$, cause you know that we know better...................:w00t: :w00t2:
 
She's a bigger person than I am! I don't like Redneck to have female friends without me. (go ahead Rbackk :glare: ) Unless she's meaner and uglier than me :brows:

so you're really saying it's fine for him to have plenty of female friends, since it should be easy to find ones meaner and uglier? :flowers:
 
Holly knows about every single one of my female friends. Many have been here for things, she has "talked" to them on the IM, and when I have a female friend, it is simply that. No difference than my male friends, friends, that is it. I know that I have a very very special lady for my wife, and I never let her go thinking less..........


I am quite sure that you have nothing to worry about either, he knows you rock, and he knows if he messes up it is all over.................LOL

:applause: :puke1: :confused: :liar: :blahblah:
 
I never saw any signs that my ex (first husband) was cheating on me.
We'd been married for almost 17 years.

He was the model father, upstanding man in the community, active in our church, a scout master blah blah blah.

It wasn't until I got a phone call one night from a woman from our church telling me she thought he was messing around with "Diane", one of the women in the church folk music group, who he'd been giving guitar lessons to.

I trusted that he was going over there on Tuesday nights giving her music lessons.
After the bombshell phone call, I decided to go over there and drive by on the following Tuesday night.
Every light in the house was off, her hubby was on the night shift at General Motors.
The ex's Jeep Cherokee was parked in the driveway.
I knocked on the door and no answer, but could hear voices from the inside.
When Mr EX came home later, I walked up to him and hugged him.
His face smelled like her.. need I say more?
I slapped him across the face and fell to my knees crying and told him I knew everything.
2 days later, I left him and moved into an apartment close to the hospital where I was then working.
 
A newspaper here had a story on cheating recently and started with the line "The orgasm only lasts seconds , but the pain , guilt and betrayal last for years" . Something to consider really .
 
A newspaper here had a story on cheating recently and started with the line "The orgasm only lasts seconds , but the pain , guilt and betrayal last for years" . Something to consider really .
Now that is well put! So true :thumb: I think they should get out before they hurt someone that badly.
 
1) Exactly 3 months ago yesterday, I bought you 2 nice gifts, that we both enjoy using. (Remember, the ones that go with the one you got me 10 days earlier???!!!):wink:

2) I have been washing my own cloths, and backwashing the pool filter for you.

I thought you also liked #8, " including patterns, positions and frequency." especially the 'positions' part!:brows:
:pat: oooops....Yur right:in_love:
 
I love this line here:

"I would never cheat on you." If you hear this, you'll know instantly he's having an affair.


So what is the honest guy supposed to say in place of????

you just got to love the survey people whoever they are! LOL!!!!
 
I love this line here:

"I would never cheat on you." If you hear this, you'll know instantly he's having an affair.


So what is the honest guy supposed to say in place of????

you just got to love the survey people whoever they are! LOL!!!!
This is what you say!
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I know a woman that is on her third marriage right now. She said she was never faithful at any time during her first 2 marriages. When I knew her as a cheater she was so miserable trying to keep stories straight, and not get caught. I learned from watching her that I never want that kind of problem.
 
I know a woman that is on her third marriage right now. She said she was never faithful at any time during her first 2 marriages. When I knew her as a cheater she was so miserable trying to keep stories straight, and not get caught. I learned from watching her that I never want that kind of problem.
I have a friend right now who is on her 4th marriage and was telling me about some guy who was a highschool sweetheart.
She ran into him at some store recently.
Since then she's been talking about him nonstop at work,telling me she knows where he lives and she drives by there.
:excl: <----------------
The current marriage is rotten (as were the others) because SHE works, he doesn't.
He's a lazy damn dog who wants to be mothered.
It's hard for me to give her any advice or say much, because I don't want to offend her.
 
My first two marriages were to the worst possible husband you could imagine....My biggest regret was staying faithful until the end. I was an idiot for giving them any respect.
 
My first two marriages were to the worst possible husband you could imagine....My biggest regret was staying faithful until the end. I was an idiot for giving them any respect.
I was faithful to Wes (#1) even though he was a master at cheating.
Steven (my late hubby) would have never done anything like that.
He was my knight in shining armour, totally... the perfect being..
I miss him very much still at times, but as they say.. life goes on.
.. and it has, for me.
 
Most times a spouse cheats on line and they don't call it cheating because they don't touch, but a liar is a liar to me. I hope you can find the happiness you deserve PG. What you had was cut short too soon, and hard to replace....but it is possible
 
Most times a spouse cheats on line and they don't call it cheating because they don't touch, but a liar is a liar to me. I hope you can find the happiness you deserve PG. What you had was cut short too soon, and hard to replace....but it is possible

Well.. playful flirtation over the internet is one thing, taking it to another level with sneaky tactics is QUITE another!
Especially when said person is lonely, likes to play mind games and wants to see something you haven't shared previously...:glare: under the guise of being a friend and wanting advice.

Yeah Cory, I'll find it one day.. maybe..:tongue: .. as for now, things are cool in the land of me..myself and I. ;)
 
As the old saying goes PG , you need to be able to happily live with yourself before you can happily live with someone else . you've got to do it on your own terms , not out of loneliness .


As for the stuff earlier , I just can't see the point of all the work involved for a brief liason , don't get me wrong , sex is fantastic , but it aint worth all the energy of leading a double life for and constantly having to work out alibi's etc so you don't get caught .
 
Well.. playful flirtation over the internet is one thing, taking it to another level with sneaky tactics is QUITE another!
Especially when said person is lonely, likes to play mind games and wants to see something you haven't shared previously...:glare: under the guise of being a friend and wanting advice.

Yeah Cory, I'll find it one day.. maybe..:tongue: .. as for now, things are cool in the land of me..myself and I. ;)


PG, just keep your head up. You never know when or where. It seems if you are "actively looking", it's nowhere around. Keep your mind open, let what happens happen, ya NEVER know when or where. When I met Cory, I had just divorced, then had a girl :shitHitFan: all over me. So I did NOT care if I ever talked to a female again. One day I rode thru the local park, stopped to use the restroom, and this little 3 yo boy comes up and says, "you want to meet my Mama? She's single." He then took my finger and led me over to Cory. (Yes, Cory, I still think you put him up to it!! :poke: ) That was about 19 years and 2 more boys ago... Remember you always have friends here.
 
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Good story redneck. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes the kids just know. And you were smart enough to go along with it. :thumb: About 20 years later look at you guys!!!!! kewl.

Good find Mtntopper. Reminder to self, if I'm going someplace i shouldn't, be sure to leave the cell phone whereever I'm supposed to be. :D
 
One day I rode thru the local park, stopped to use the restroom, and this little 3 yo boy comes up and says, "you want to meet my Mama? She's single." He then took my finger and led me over to Cory. (Yes, Cory, I still think you put him up to it!! :poke: )

This tall good looking man gets out of a big truck:in_love: .....yeah I was look'in! :brows: (his hands were huge PG! lol)
 
urednecku said:
One day I rode thru the local park, stopped to use the restroom


Man you lucky around here you get arrest doing that in our parks...also you getting into trouble if you stomp your feet....lol
 


Man you lucky around here you get arrest doing that in our parks...also you getting into trouble if you stomp your feet....lol

Sad but true. These days it is different. They were talking about 19 years ago. My how things have changed in the past 19 years. :pat:
 
things have change in the pass years ....I know he was talking about the pass....now days yes or if you are a senator you cant even go into a restroom without tapping your foot to the MUSIC...lol
 
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