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Is masturbation considered a form of cheating on your spouse?
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FrancSevin
Proudly Deplorable
You can't hold his hand while having sex with you wife either. But that is how it's done.
Near as my redneck mind can recollect from readin' verses in the BOOK, he approves.
Lust is wrong, Especially if it isn't your committed partner on your mind.
And, as near as I can figger, this isn't the religious sub forum.
Angelface
New member
Wow.. you know I'm starting to think posting on this forum is becoming a mistake. With much respect to those who helped me through some serious issues, I can't deal with all this aggressive judging me and my every thought and intent every time I post something. As far I knew there was quite a few other females who use this forum. Not just old men.. You know I am sorry, embarrassed, and regret this whole thing. I was just being open minded and yah went to far with it perhaps.. But I just liked a thought of being able to go post somewhere and post anything with a fun but helpful mature group. I can't stand people who have to over analyze everything and everyone. Sigh...
FrancSevin
Proudly Deplorable
Yu posts are stimulating, brave and useful. As it is you have some life issues of importance to you and significant to anyone who might actually care. I would hope we could be of help.
Of all the Sub forums, this is particularly one in which judgments should ever be made.
I apologize if I offended, and also for my friends who seem to be spending too much time yet, behind the School cafeteria Dumpster.
Danang Sailor
nullius in verba
My post (#13) was lightly worded, but was meant to be a serious one nonetheless. I apologize if it was taken as
a jest, as that was not my intent.
Franc, I don't know exactly how this thread went to the devil either, but it surely did. However, there were some of us "old
poots" who really did try to pass along actual responses to the actual, serious question. Perhaps we'll do better next time.
FrancSevin
Proudly Deplorable
Your post may have been in plain English but, not at all offensive IMHO.
Either Angelface is here with real questions of her life crisis's, or she is a provocateur. However, whether she is sincere or just an old fat guy teasing us, her subjects are worth serious and respectful discussion.
With the best of intentions I will respond with the assumption of the former.
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Kane
New member
I'm giving muleman's post another bump, because he is spot on. And with any luck this thread might find an acceptable conclusion. Masturbation is a natural act, particularly among primates. Consider us lucky that I have some restraint and don't post the youtube vid of a male turtle pleasuring himself. Yes, a turtle.
In any event, cheating on a spouse (no matter if it is emotional, sexual, whatever) is a premeditated act. The act is thoughtfully considered and is usually scheduled to take place at a certain time and location. That is cheating.
But generally speaking, masturbation is an unscheduled random occurrence, most often generated by innocent arousal, and is consummated if and only if the particular whereabouts permit. This is not cheating.
Then again there's the individual that sits in front of a computer screen watching porn and getting the keys all stuck together. That's a different story. That's just icky and weird. But I doubt if this person has a mate upon which to cheat.
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NorthernRedneck
Well-known member
That's been mentioned here a bunch of times in the past.
Gunsrus
Active member
Well, the way I see it, yeah, masturbation could be considered a way of cheating on her, because you aren't feeding her second mouth, you're just wasting the juice and acting so selfishly. I'd never do that to my wife. It'd be the most rotten thing I could ever do to anyone.
Robertroland
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Not really, masturbation isn’t usually considered cheating, especially when it's private. But if it involves watching or thinking about escorts, it could feel like emotional betrayal to some partners, depending on the relationship rules.