for the point of the pole... if you must penetrate hard stuff - like concrete, brick, stone....
(not much flimsy construction I've seen in Italy . . . )
pointed pole is good.
if you must also "pull" from the penetration, here's an idea for a "clip on" hook - assuming an I-beam pole...
the hook is made with two side plates, the distance between side plates to match the thickness of the beam web.
the 'height' of the side plates to match the beam -
length needs to ensure it has enough leverage to not destruct itself on use.
I would recommend the use of pins vs. bolts. 15-20 mm diameter pin, with head, hole on opposite end for a hairpin clip.
all the dimensions / etc must include generous tolerances, other wise you spend a lot of time attempting to get things lined up and/or released.