Women: would you give a BJ, if?

joebythelake

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I'm 65 and have prostate cancer. No big deal, no symptoms and probably nothing to worry about until i croak at around 90 yrs old. However, I take meds to lower my PSA. Problem is the meds don't allow me to get very hard. Plus, "it' was never really more than the small side of normal anyway.

So here I am horny and wanting some relief. Even with lots of attention, it's only semi hard, making insertion in a vagina difficult (try putting a wet noodle in there) however, with enough stimulation, I can climax even when semi soft and it does feel good. Other than frantic, self manual means, the best altenative is oral. But of course, women don't like the taste, etc.

The meds have another affect. My "output' is only a drop or two. Thanks to a vasectomy many years ago, there are no wiggles in it.

So, for those who don't like it, would you do it? (assuming, you like the guy and wanted to please him) Would you let him complete and continue oral stimulation until the last whimper of his climax was over/
 

FrancSevin

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I say BS. This guy just wants her to let him cum in her mouth. Manual stimulation, continued by your partner, after orgasm is actually can last longer and is more pleasant.
69 is wonderful but generally I found it impossible to coordinate simultaneously with maximum pleasure. To do it right for your partner, concentration on them is key. My wife is usually so exhausted after I do hers that she cannot do much of anything.
 
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joebythelake

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This wa supposed to be a question for women who don't like to give BJs, not a discussion with guys about "why don't you do this"? I wanted to know whether a situation like mine would change their mind?
 

FrancSevin

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This was supposed to be a question for women who don't like to give BJs, not a discussion with guys about "why don't you do this"? I wanted to know whether a situation like mine would change their mind?
Sorry but you didn't specify a target to women in your first post. Aside from that, this is an open forum and you will get various opinions from many sides of any issue. A good many men have ideas about this subject. Some may even think along your line. Why would you not want to hear from them as well?

If, as you say, you only wanted to hear from women, not many of them here and most, if not all, are not looking for a hookup. Jus' sayin'
BTW age has nothing to do with it but for the record, we are all, mostly, adults here. I'm 73 and tend to call 'em as I see 'em. Most members do also.
 

pirate_girl

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If, as you say, you only wanted to hear from women, not many of them here and most, if not all, are not looking for a hookup. Jus' sayin'
BTW age has nothing to do with it but for the record, we are all, mostly, adults here. I'm 73 and tend to call 'em as I see 'em. Most members do also.
Yup.
 

mla2ofus

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It just walked in with a big spoon in hand and is lookin' for a pot to stir. I say don't humor it!!
 

Doc

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Seems like he's more trying to stir the shit. No relationship starts out like that. Never. Any woman would say flat out No f'ing way. Ain't gonna happen.
We all know the order is meet someone, mutual attraction, get to know each other if all is good it leads to sex. Then and only then does info like you posted come up. I call BS on this one.
 

EastTexFrank

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Jeez. A guy wanders in off the street and starts baring his innermost sexual secrets to you and you don't find that suspicious? Would I do that? No! Would you do that? No? Then why would this shithead do it? He's looking for a reaction and I'll give him mine. :moon: Kiss it bro'.
 
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pirate_girl

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Jeez. A guy wanders in off the street and starts baring his innermost sexual secrets to you and you don't find that suspicious? Would I do that? No! Would you do that? No? Then why would this shithead do it? He's looking for a reaction and I'll give him mine. :moon: Kiss it bro'.
Lol
What he said.
 

Bannedjoe

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Personally, I wouldn't give a beej to anyone, well, except myself maybe.
Been trying all my life with zero success.:rolleyes:
Good thing I have a wonderful wife.

I just give her a waggle and say, honey, there's a call for you on line one, wanna talk to Santa?
 

pirate_girl

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Personally, I wouldn't give a beej to anyone, well, except myself maybe.
Been trying all my life with zero success.:rolleyes:
Good thing I have a wonderful wife.

I just give her a waggle and say, honey, there's a call for you on line one, wanna talk to Santa?
🤣
 
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