The back story My daughter fell in love with a guy he got him self locked up on a drug selling charge. Meanwhile, my daughter got to spend a bit of time at the crowbar motel to. I had a talk with both I asked wtf do they expect me at my age to be raising more kids I didn't father. in my family I have 2 step kids that I gladly took in and raised them as mine, and its been the step kids getting in to trouble mostly petty crap. not for the rest of the story the. son in law who was locked up and because of the stupid thing he did got a nickname straight from all in the family, was fatally stabbed the other night. My step son was the one to do it. I did not encourage fighting when young nor did I encourage sticking your nose where it didn't belong because those activity's can escalate. the moral to the story Is that all we can do as parents and especially as foster parents is do the best we can do but as kids grow older they may not choose to learn from our wisdom, and we cant hold ourselves responsible. I hope in the end something good comes out of all this crap because I feel so bad for the other individual's family and most especially his parents.