Well, I finally figured it out. I was about to call the professionals and I know they always tell you you need drains around the complete perimiter and it will only cost 20k. Anyway it had been dry for quite a while and I happened to be standing in my room saying to my wife at lest the carpet was dry, even with all this rain. Then I put my foot over by the wall. Soaked. Soon the entire floor was soaked. but this time I knew exactly where the water came in. I went outside and the downspouts appeared to be working fine, and the sump pump was t'd into the gutter on the highside. I was just looking behind the low gutter to see if it was leaking. O my goodness, there was a stream of water running under it, but not going out onto the sidewalk. So I picked up a shovel and started digging. It was mud and very hard to get off the shovel. anyway I dug up the leak, it was running under the black tubing supposedly running it out to the yard. anyway I dug it clear up to where the sump pump tee'd into the gutter drain. Some of it, very little actually went down the black tubing, but enough to make me think it was. In reality almost all of it was going under the tubing down the hill to my bedroom and appears to run right in my room.
I rerouted all the gutters and the sump pump into individual tubing and ran them into the back yard. Bingo dry room. I just have to landscape it back in when it dries out a bit. Happy day, I thought it was gonna cost thousands, in reality it was a 4 dollar snap in fitting and lots of tubing.
Thanks everyone for the help.