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OK I'm in a relationship with a mad woman that I love dearly, why do I love her? Simple she makes me smile and feel alive.

Problem is she is such a arse, you can't talk serious as she just opens her potty mouth and bang no way you can finish what you started as she just distracts me by flashing.

Point is new year new start, I love her more than I can explain but should I just walk another new path or ride out the storm?

As you all know the past few years were tough, I have my own place to go to,I'm not changing who I am and I respect her enough for her not to change.

Highs... Amazing mother, friend, lover, cook, lover, lover, lover, creative like me, free spirit, my jayne in short.

Lows... Potty mouth, shouts don't talk, stubborn, annoying, messy, hoarder, smokes in the car, pisses me off daily

I love her more than any woman ever, what should I do?
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OK I'm in a relationship with a mad woman that I love dearly, why do I love her? Simple she makes me smile and feel alive.

Problem is she is such a arse, you can't talk serious as she just opens her potty mouth and bang no way you can finish what you started as she just distracts me by flashing.

Point is new year new start, I love her more than I can explain but should I just walk another new path or ride out the storm?

As you all know the past few years were tough, I have my own place to go to,I'm not changing who I am and I respect her enough for her not to change.

Highs... Amazing mother, friend, lover, cook, lover, lover, lover, creative like me, free spirit, my jayne in short.

Lows... Potty mouth, shouts don't talk, stubborn, annoying, messy, hoarder, smokes in the car, pisses me off daily

I love her more than any woman ever, what should I do?
We end up in life witht eh choices we make. That's how life works.

But it is virtually impossible to "Chose" a perfect relationship. That has to be made, minute by minute, day by day. The question I believe you are asking is this, "did I chose the right material with which to build a lifelong relationship, or am are you having trouble with the challenges of construction?"

A creative person can bring beauty out of most any medium. Jus' sayin.'
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Though I can't specifically answer your questions, I'd like you to both carefully listen to this song.


Maybe then drop the pride and discuss what's burning your bridges.
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There's no perfect girl. Only the one perfect for you. Lord knows I went through a few after my divorce before I found the right one for me. Don't settle for the one you can live with. Don't stop searching till you find the one you can't live without.

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There's no perfect girl. Only the one perfect for you. Lord knows I went through a few after my divorce before I found the right one for me. Don't settle for the one you can live with. Don't stop searching till you find the one you can't live without.

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I have 2 sons who would give you a big thumbs up for that, Brian.


Galv, both my boys have now gone through 2 bad relationships.
They each found "the woman".
Both caring, giving, great housekeepers, love my granddaughters like their own,intelligent and successful in their own right.

I wish you luck.
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I don't want to change her but is there a way I can get her to shut the fuck up and listen with no boods out?
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I don't want to change her but is there a way I can get her to shut the fuck up and listen with no boods out?
Well if your solution at all is wanting /telling a woman to "shut the fuck up", you ain't gonna get too far.
By wanting her silenced, you want to change her.
Bad move.
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My life lacks sense of humour, sadly, I will seek elsewhere
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I don't want to change her but is there a way I can get her to shut the fuck up and listen with no boods out?
It has been my experience that approach is certain disaster. You will lose every argument after and likely lose her.

Perhaps instead of complaining about what makes you mad, try letting her know what makes you happy by saying the same thing as a request.
A softer approach lets her retain her dignity and neither of you have to come back from anger. Successful relationships are based, at least in my view, on a commitment to the other person's happiness, at all costs. If it costs too much then the relationship was doomed from the beginning.


Risky? Yes. What you may well find out is whether or not YOU cost HER too much. If so, I fear not much can be done for your happiness with her without Booze or Pharmaceutical assistance.

You've been there before. Yeah, not approved.
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"Love is that condition in which the happiness of another is essential to your own." -- Robert A. Heinlein

I first read those words more than 50 years ago; they seemed right then and experience over the years has shown they absolutely are. If that is not what you have, a serious evaluation of your situation would seem to be in order.
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