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Old 01-16-2014, 10:28 PM
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I have to wonder if this normal...
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Old 01-16-2014, 11:55 PM
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Default Re: Have you ever been so afriad of being hurt by people again that you chose to be a

No it is not normal. There are a lot of very good people out there and I know many of them. To answer your question, I have many friends that would help me get away from an abusive relationship. It is up to you to leave.
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Default Re: Have you ever been so afriad of being hurt by people again that you chose to be a

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I have to wonder if this normal...
It is normal to feel this way until time passes. Don't be in a hurry. Life is like wine. A good one cannot be rushed just because you are thirsty.
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Default Re: Have you ever been so afriad of being hurt by people again that you chose to be a

I tend to agree with Franc; withdrawing can be a normal reaction when the pain is bad enough. However, it is very
unhealthy for that situation to continue for any great length of time. Talk to someone you trust completely - a friend, a priest,
anyone who you can tell the whole truth to without fear. Things will get better.

And never lose sight of the fact that not all of us - males, that is - are overbearing, manipulative, abusive assholes. Perfect we
are not, but we're not all like those that have hurt you so badly.

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u already know this 1.
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Default Re: Have you ever been so afriad of being hurt by people again that you chose to be a

No, is the honest answer. I've never felt this badly toward anyone. I hope I never do.
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Default Re: Have you ever been so afriad of being hurt by people again that you chose to be a

Maybe at first if you leave a bad relationship. But over time you will or should heal. If you have many bad relationships it is normal to feel that way.
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Default Re: Have you ever been so afriad of being hurt by people again that you chose to be a

I once had felt that way way back after a relationship has ended. I would, at that time would rather left alone and that lasted for 2 years because I fear of getting hurt once again. And then, I realize, there is no sense of being afraid. I changed and finally I met someone worthy.
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