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Old 07-08-2019, 12:27 AM
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Default Will I have a chance in a relationship?

At this moment I'm holding off dating and continuing therapy at my college. I'm currently a 19 year-old college freshman.

There is a good reason I don't reciprocate when I get hit on by guys. It's just been 3 years since I was released from a juvenile detention center. I was locked up for 6 years (from ages 10-16) and upon released was under conditional supervision for 2 more years; until my HS graduation. I did time for doing serious things as a kid.

Eventually I do want to get in a relationship, find a man that will accept me and have kids. Will I have that chance? Will a man ever come to overlooking what I did as a kid and giving me a chance?
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To answer your question, I would guess yes. Good things take time. Be patient.
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To answer your question, I would guess yes. Good things take time. Be patient.
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Your young, and have a life time ahead of you. If you want to relationship, my bet is you can have that. As a young Adult, you are already aware of the issues your childhood brings. In my State crimes committed as a juvenile are in effect erased from your record, as long as you do not repeat offend. Some thing tells me that you will not.. Lesson learned.

Own your mistakes, and they will never own you. Fess up to those you fell the need to, and admit to others as well as your self what a mess you made at the ripe age of 10... Your a different person now, as you realize that you paid your time for the act you committed. This is important to remember, as you paid your debt to society.

I wish you the best of luck. May you for your life time realize the difference between right and wrong.

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An older adult mentor in your personal life could help greatly, whether it be a mom, dad, uncle, aunt or another trusted person.

Two young ladies and one young man have "adopted me in the past. I took that very serious and helped them with my experiences. I hope this helps
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An older adult mentor in your personal life could help greatly, whether it be a mom, dad, uncle, aunt or another trusted person.

Two young ladies and one young man have "adopted me in the past. I took that very serious and helped them with my experiences. I hope this helps
I agree I have raised 2 step children and 2 I fathered. at your age I suggest you just hold off my oldest daughter did. she met a real nice guy and just got married my step daughter who is more prone to peer pressure got pregnant 3 times now we lost the first child to sids but her mo is get to get hooked up with guys who cant keep a job or stay out of jail. I had a talk with her and meathead the last round some thing seemed to sink in been been a year since either have been a guest of the state she is working real steady has 2 kids but meathead has trouble getting to work on time as such he is un employed. the lesson here is take your time find the right one don't go looking at looks only your fun boy toy can cost you big in the long run. if things don't work out you could be stuck raising a kid your self and kids really need both parents involved in their life.
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