please give me some feedback

[hotgirlinf]

I want some feedback on this,plese tell me what you think about this,if you read my last post about the guy that I have been talking to on the computer for years you will know about what I'm talking about,so Jason broke up with me,I completely understand why he did,he has a 5 year old son,he has no time for a girlfriend,and the distance with us is an hour away,I told him that I understood and everything,he told me he still wants to be friends when I was texting him earlier,but he unfriended me on facebook.

[BigAl]

Originally Posted by hotgirlinf

I want some feedback on this,plese tell me what you think about this,if you read my last post about the guy that I have been talking to on the computer for years you will know about what I'm talking about,so Jason broke up with me,I completely understand why he did,he has a 5 year old son,he has no time for a girlfriend,and the distance with us is an hour away,I told him that I understood and everything,he told me he still wants to be friends when I was texting him earlier,but he unfriended me on facebook.

No he does not . He just wanted to be nice and be left alone . Not a Nice way of saying Goodbye forever .
Time to move on. Consider yourself lucky .

[Doc]

Originally Posted by BigAl

No he does not . He just wanted to be nice and be left alone . Not a Nice way of saying Goodbye forever .
Time to move on. Consider yourself lucky .

Sorry HGF but I do believe AL nailed it.
After a GF / BF relationship guys do not do well as 'friends'
Move on. I know it is easier said than done but get out and join a club or church group and meet your next BF in person.
To often the guy at the other end of a computer relationship is NOT what or who they say. Plus long distance relationship can be so frustrating.
best of luck with your next relationship.

[Pretty Flamingo]

Originally Posted by Doc

Sorry HGF but I do believe AL nailed it.
After a GF / BF relationship guys do not do well as 'friends'
Move on. I know it is easier said than done but get out and join a club or church group and meet your next BF in person.
To often the guy at the other end of a computer relationship is NOT what or who they say. Plus long distance relationship can be so frustrating.
best of luck with your next relationship.

Absolutely right.

I wouldn't even get chatting in a friendly way to someone long distance because it easily develops into something more serious, then you're hooked. Been there, done that and got the tee-shirt.

It is hard I know, but day by day things will get easier.

[Danang Sailor]

An hour distant really isn't enough to be a bother, and having a young son shouldn't really be a factor either; it seems to me
these are nothing but excuses. For whatever reason the guy has decided you just aren't "the one" and doesn't have the cajones
to come right out and say that. As for "being friends" ... as others have said, that isn't very likely. Bind your wounds, consider
this a Life Lesson, and move on.

[Kane]

Originally Posted by Danang Sailor

An hour distant really isn't enough to be a bother, and having a young son shouldn't really be a factor either; it seems to me
these are nothing but excuses. For whatever reason the guy has decided you just aren't "the one" and doesn't have the cajones
to come right out and say that. As for "being friends" ... as others have said, that isn't very likely. Bind your wounds, consider
this a Life Lesson, and move on.

Yes, BS to the "let's still be friends" crap. He already un-friended you? HA! For a lot of folks, an hour's drive is just a daily commute. So BS to that excuse, too. Also, I'd guess that about half of relationships today involve step-children or children from a prior relationship. So BS to that excuse, too.

So be glad it ended so relatively pain free. The next man will be the real deal. (But do it in person).

[hotgirlinf]

ok thank you everyone for the replies,I agree 100 percent,and it's very good advice.:)