I have a quandry...
Last Friday evening. Going into a long weekend. The neighborhood has an impromptu get together at a neighbor's house. Alcohol is involved.
Things are going fine. Lots of jokes and good times.
Later on, the wives/kids go home.
Time goes by, there's 3 of us hanging out and having a good time.
One had never seen the bunker before so the 3 of us ride up the road to show him.
While there, his temperment changes...
He's looking around but starts "tampering" with things. I ask him to stop as he's touching a lot of electrical things I don't want him to. This goes to the point where he pulled fire alarm pulls and such.
I call him on it and request (tactfully demand) he stops.
At this point, he decides he wants to get violent and tries to pick a fight. Being about 70# lighter than he is (I'm not very big), I decline and talk my way out of it.
I get the situation back under control and get us back to being friendly. The 3rd person with us was a great help and help subside the person.
Next day...
The person that got violent/beligerent/obnoxious called and apologized. I heard him out but didn't "accept" his opology. My response was simply an "OK" that he apologized.
Now... I'm pondering what to do. I realize now that he can get violent, regardless of whom he's talking to.
What do I do now? I have about 10 answers but don't know which is the most appropriate.
Please advise.
Last Friday evening. Going into a long weekend. The neighborhood has an impromptu get together at a neighbor's house. Alcohol is involved.
Things are going fine. Lots of jokes and good times.
Later on, the wives/kids go home.
Time goes by, there's 3 of us hanging out and having a good time.
One had never seen the bunker before so the 3 of us ride up the road to show him.
While there, his temperment changes...
He's looking around but starts "tampering" with things. I ask him to stop as he's touching a lot of electrical things I don't want him to. This goes to the point where he pulled fire alarm pulls and such.
I call him on it and request (tactfully demand) he stops.
At this point, he decides he wants to get violent and tries to pick a fight. Being about 70# lighter than he is (I'm not very big), I decline and talk my way out of it.
I get the situation back under control and get us back to being friendly. The 3rd person with us was a great help and help subside the person.
Next day...
The person that got violent/beligerent/obnoxious called and apologized. I heard him out but didn't "accept" his opology. My response was simply an "OK" that he apologized.
Now... I'm pondering what to do. I realize now that he can get violent, regardless of whom he's talking to.
What do I do now? I have about 10 answers but don't know which is the most appropriate.
Please advise.