We decided to get our 1 year old boy cat a playmate . The wife brought home this little "little" 1 year old female . She kicked his ass . He does not have a mean bone in his body . Now he is shell shocked . I sent the mean bitch back to the adoption home and we picked up a kitten . My boy is scared to death of her now . He never hissed in his life ,but he does now . Why do girls have to be mean to us old boys ??????