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Dad and Cheyenne

Rusty Shackleford

Automotive M.D.
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CHEYENNE
By Catherine Moore

' Watch out! You nearly broad sided that car!' My father yelled at me.
'Can't you do anything right?' Those words hurt worse than blows. I turned
my head toward the elderly man in the seat beside me, daring me to
challenge him. A lump rose in my throat as I averted my eyes. I wasn't
prepared for another battle.

'I saw the car, Dad.. Please don't yell at me when I'm driving.' My voice
was measured and steady, sounding far calmer than I really felt.

Dad glared at me, then, turned away and settled back. At home, I left Dad
in front of the television and went outside to collect my thoughts. Dark,
heavy clouds hung in the air with a promise of rain. The rumble of distant
thunder seemed to echo my inner turmoil.

What could I do about him?

Dad had been a lumberjack in Washington and Oregon . He had enjoyed being
outdoors and had reveled in pitting his strength against the forces of
nature. He had entered grueling lumberjack competitions and had placed
often. The shelves in his house were filled with trophies that attested to
his prowess.


The years marched on relentlessly. The first time he couldn't lift a heavy
log, he joked about it; but later that same day, I saw him outside alone,
straining to lift it. He became irritable whenever anyone teased him about
his advancing age or when he couldn't do something he had done as a younger
man.

Four days after his sixty-seventh birthday, he had a heart attack. At the
hospital, Dad was rushed into an operating room. He was lucky; he
survived..

But something inside Dad died. His zest for life was gone. He obstinately
refused to follow doctor's orders. Suggestions and offers of help were
turned aside with sarcasm and insults. The number of visitors thinned and
then finally stopped altogether. Dad was left alone.

My husband, Dick, and I asked Dad to come live with us on our small farm.
We hoped the fresh air and rustic atmosphere would help him adjust. Within
a week after he moved in, I regretted the invitation... It seemed nothing
was satisfactory. He criticized everything I did. I became frustrated and
moody. Soon, I was taking my pent-up anger out on Dick. We began to bicker
and argue. Alarmed, Dick sought out our pastor and explained the
situation.. The clergyman set up weekly counseling appointments for us. At
the close of each session, he prayed, asking God to soothe Dad's troubled
mind. But the months wore on and God was silent. Something had to be done
and it was up to me to do it.

The next day, I sat down with the phone book and methodically called each
of the mental health clinics listed in the Yellow Pages. I explained my
problem to each of the sympathetic voices that answered. In vain. Just when
I was giving up hope, one of the voices suddenly exclaimed, 'I just read
something that might help you! Let me go get the article.' I listened as
she read. The article described a remarkable study done at a nursing home.
All of the patients were under treatment for chronic depression. Yet their
attitudes had improved dramatically when they were given responsibility for
a dog.

I drove to the animal shelter that afternoon.. After I filled out a
questionnaire, a uniformed officer led me to the kennels. The odor of
disinfectant stung my nostrils as I moved down the row of pens. Each
contained five to seven dogs. Long-haired dogs, curly-haired dogs, black
dogs, spotted dogs all jumped up, trying to reach me. I studied each one,
but rejected one after the other for various reasons, too big, too small,
too much hair. As I neared the last pen, a dog in the shadows of the far
corner struggled to his feet, walked to the front of the run and sat down.
It was a pointer, one of the dog world's aristocrats. But this was a
caricature of the breed. Years had etched his face and muzzle with shades
of gray. His hipbones jutted out in lopsided triangles. But it was his eyes
that caught and held my attention. Calm and clear, they beheld me
unwaveringly.

I pointed to the dog. 'Can you tell me about him?' The officer looked, and
then shook his head in puzzlement..

'He's a funny one. Appeared out of nowhere and sat in front of the gate. We
brought him in, figuring someone would be right down to claim him; that was
two weeks ago and we've heard nothing. His time is up tomorrow.' He
gestured helplessly.

As the words sank in, I turned to the man in horror. 'You mean you're going
to kill him?'

'Ma'am,' he said gently, 'that's our policy. We don't have room for every
unclaimed dog.'

I looked at the pointer again. The calm brown eyes awaited my decision.
'I'll take him,' I said.

I drove home with the dog on the front seat beside me. When I reached the
house, I honked the horn twice. I was helping my prize out of the car when
Dad shuffled onto the front porch.

'Ta-da! Look what I got for you, Dad!' I said excitedly.

Dad looked, and then wrinkled his face in disgust. 'If I had wanted a dog,
I would have gotten one. And I would have picked out a better specimen than
that bag of bones. Keep it! I don't want it' Dad waved his arm scornfully
and turned back toward the house.

Anger rose inside me. It squeezed together my throat muscles and pounded
into my temples.

'You'd better get used to him, Dad. He's staying!' Dad ignored me.. 'Did
you hear me, Dad?' I screamed. At those words, Dad whirled angrily, his
hands clenched at his sides, his eyes narrowed and blazing with hate.

We stood glaring at each other like duelists, when, suddenly, the pointer
pulled free from my grasp. He wobbled toward my dad and sat down in front
of him.. Then slowly, carefully, he raised his paw.

Dad's lower jaw trembled as he stared at the uplifted paw. Confusion
replaced the anger in his eyes. The pointer waited patiently.. Then, Dad
was on his knees, hugging the animal.

It was the beginning of a warm and intimate friendship. Dad named the
pointer Cheyenne . Together, he and Cheyenne explored the community.
They spent long hours walking down dusty lanes. They spent reflective
moments on the banks of streams, angling for tasty trout. They even started
to attend Sunday services together, Dad sitting in a pew and Cheyenne lying
quietly at his feet.

Dad and Cheyenne were inseparable throughout the next three years. Dad's
bitterness faded and he and Cheyenne made many friends. Then, late one
night, I was startled to feel Cheyenne 's cold nose burrowing through our
bed covers. He had never before come into our bedroom at night. I woke
Dick, put on my robe, and ran into my father's room. Dad lay in his bed,
his face serene. But his spirit had left quietly sometime during the night.

Two days later, my shock and grief deepened when I discovered Cheyenne
lying dead beside Dad's bed. I wrapped his still form in the rag rug he had
slept on. As Dick and I buried him near a favorite fishing hole, I silently
thanked the dog for the help he had given me in restoring Dad's peace of
mind.

The morning of Dad's funeral dawned, overcast and dreary. This day looks
like the way I feel, I thought, as I walked down the aisle to the pews
reserved for family. I was surprised to see the many friends Dad and
Cheyenne had made filling the church. The pastor began his eulogy. It was a
tribute to both Dad and the dog who had changed his life. And, then, the
pastor turned to Hebrews 13:2. 'Be not forgetful to entertain strangers.'

'I've often thanked God for sending that angel,' he said.

For me, the past dropped into place, completing a puzzle that I had not
seen before: the sympathetic voice that had just read the right article.

Cheyenne's unexpected appearance at the animal shelter. his calm acceptance
and complete devotion to my father. and the proximity of their deaths. And,
suddenly, I understood. I knew that God had answered my prayers after all.



Life is too short for drama & petty things, so laugh hard, love truly, and
forgive quickly... Live While You Are Alive. Tell the people you love that
you love them, at every opportunity. Forgive now, those who made you cry.


You may never get a second time.

And if you don't send this to at least 4 people - who cares? But do share
this with someone... Lost time can never be found.
 

muleman

Gone But Not Forgotten
GOLD Site Supporter
Good story Rusty. The test of a person is how he treats his companions, human or animal.
 
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