Take my word for it nothing harder than loosing a child, even an adult child be it accidental or homicide. I also understand how first responders can be so callous in these situations as it is a natural response to eventually cover the horrors they see daily over time. As for taking video, I have to agree that was absolutely out of line then worse posting them where others could get them for their giggles. The one that did it, to me is time to find another profession.